YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE BUILDING OR DESTROYING

Ever had that thought where you are confused whether you are building or destroying yourself?

Here are a few ways to see whether you are doing this to yourself;

1. You like complements 

This is not wrong,  but it is not right either. Why? Because, the love for complements makes you a people pleaser. You do not do things for yourself,  for your own enjoyment or to satisfy one's spirit but you are now looking for ways, going out of your way to please and receive a complement.

2. You talk a lot about yourself

One cannot remain silent in a group, but you have to know when you are now the only one sharing, or oversharing. Yes, a lot is going on in your life, but does that really have to be known by everybody? Does anyone have to be updated? Will that spark love and positive vibes for you? Look around and try to control yourself. Share then wait for others to allow share, okay?

The tongue has the power to either build or destroy. Do not find yourself on the lips of people who want your joy.

Fighting!!!

 

 DO THOSE LITTLE THINGS AND SEE...

 LIFE IS HARD, BUT TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL RAISE AND OVERCOME.

WAKE UP EVERYDAY

That is power on its own. You are doing what requires strength, rising needs strength 💪  you become more powerful when you do not allow yesterday's worries defeat your present. 

TELL YOURSELF YOU CAN DO IT

If not you, who will tell you that. Fight to win, because if you do not, the words of people sometimes do not reach unless you tell yourself your worth. Because you are so much worth a lot 

LOVE YOU TOO 

Love for self is important because it brings peace and happiness to the soul. A happy mind is a happy person.

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DECLARE THAT YOU ARE WHOLE.

There is power in knowing who you are. The is power in the responsibility for your journey.  There is power in loving yourself.  There is power in the ability to realise that you have strayed. There is power in self control.  There is power in the ability to know you were wrong and correcting that wrong. There is power the eating well to maintain your appearance.  There is power in forgiveness.  Ther is power in peace

Life is short to be holding on to hate, To be holing on to grudges and to be holding to what happened to you in the past. Choose peace over worry and love over hate, both are food for the soul.

Fighting!!!

 

CALL THE INNER YOU

 The inner you is who you are meant to be, the inner you is who you lost while trying to nevagete your way around life. Here are a few ways to find yourself again;

Your interests

Your interests are one in many ways to find the inner you, while looking at them you will realise why you like those things, how they impact you and why? Coping another person can delay your journey and can make you lose sight of who your are. So focus on your personal  assignment; YOURSELF 

Your dreams

Not night dreams, but future dreams. The reason why you want to do or become that person in the future is because you as a person were called for a certain purpose, to become a certain change and to accomplish a certain mission.  You did not just stumble and came, you were called. 

These two are one of the most crucial ways one can find or can call their inner self,  why? To get back on track. To find your purpose again.  And to become who you were called to become.

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LOVE THE WAY YOU CHANGE

When we grow, our bodies change, they shape and they also reveal things about us that we did not notice when we were still young. Here are some things to learn to appreciate as you change when growing up;

YOUR OPINIONS

People are always changing the way they think, and this is something that is a norm, so when we grow, we grow even in the way we think and how we view things compared to the way we viewed them back then

YOUR HEIGHT

We all want to become tall adults and when you are all grown up realising that you are one of the short adults is not something that that you just accept. It is hard, and finding a way to be comfortable in that height takes time. But you need to find a way around that height and move on.

YOUR BODY

Girls want an hourglass body, while guys want a ribbed body, why? Is it expectations. We see that adults look cool when they look like that so, when I grow i want to be just like like that. Only to find out that you do not have an hourglass or you are struggling to have that ribbed body. The only solution here is the right exercise and professional workout advice. 

No matter the way you become, just remember this: there is a way around everything. 

Fighting!!!

 

THERE IS POWER IN LOVING YOURSELF

Loving yourself is most the powerful thing to do for yourself. Love comes with not judging yourself, being patient with your self, being kind to yourself and wishing the best for yourself.

When others think you are not good enough, when others think you are not pretty enough, when others think you do not deserve, but find you in a place they did not imagine. A place of love. A place that does not tolerate self hate, a place that is at peace with you. Love is the start and self love is the beginning.

People's words do not matter when you have self love, what matters is what you believe is about yourself. I love myself.

Aja Aja!!!

 

 EQUIP YOURSELF FOR CHANGE AS YOU AGE

God is always with us in the mountains and the valley. The bad and good decisions we make he is there. So, in each and every step of life make sure that you equipped yourself with the necessary equipment that you need for the troubles ahead. 

No matter what status you are in life challenges of any kind can locate you. So, be sure to be ready for even a disaster so insignificant because that insignificant challenge can have a chance at breaking you if you are not prepared.

Do not let go of yourself, do not forget yourself, do not forget what makes or breaks you and most importantly, do not forget how you get up from an attack that was meant to break you.

Fighting!!!