LOVE THE WAY YOU CHANGE

When we grow, our bodies change, they shape and they also reveal things about us that we did not notice when we were still young. Here are some things to learn to appreciate as you change when growing up;

YOUR HEIGHT

We all want to become tall adults and when you are all grown up realising that you are one of the short adults is not something that that you just accept. It is hard, and finding a way to be comfortable in that height takes time. But you need to find a way around that height and move on.

YOUR BODY

Girls want an hourglass body, while guys want a ribbed body, why? Is it expectations. We see that adults look cool when they look like that so, when I grow i want to be just like like that. Only to find out that you do not have an hourglass or you are struggling to have that ribbed body. The only solution here is the right exercise and professional workout advice. 

No matter the way you become, just remember this: there is a way around everything. 

Fighting!!!

 

THERE IS POWER IN LOVING YOURSELF

Loving yourself is most the powerful thing to do for yourself. Love comes with not judging yourself, being patient with your self, being kind to yourself and wishing the best for yourself.

When others think you are not good enough, when others think you are not pretty enough, when others think you do not deserve, but find you in a place they did not imagine. A place of love. A place that does not tolerate self hate, a place that is at peace with you. Love is the start and self love is the beginning.

People's words do not matter when you have self love, what matters is what you believe is about yourself. I love myself.

Aja Aja!!!

 

 EQUIP YOURSELF FOR CHANGE AS YOU AGE

God is always with us in the mountains and the valley. The bad and good decisions we make he is there. So, in each and every step of life make sure that you equipped yourself with the necessary equipment that you need for the troubles ahead. 

No matter what status you are in life challenges of any kind can locate you. So, be sure to be ready for even a disaster so insignificant because that insignificant challenge can have a chance at breaking you if you are not prepared.

Do not let go of yourself, do not forget yourself, do not forget what makes or breaks you and most importantly, do not forget how you get up from an attack that was meant to break you.

Fighting!!!

 NEVER LISTEN TO THE NOISE

Are trying to build yourself but having trouble listening to what others have to say? Well, life us like that! You wake up in the morning with this dream of a new and better you to hear that you are in the wrong. But are you?

People love to be comfortable, and what is different scares them. So, if you have a dream of doing something different it is wise to slowly introduce your new, move slowly and carefully. Do not step on anyone's toes, not your parent's, not your neighbor's neither your relative's,  while moving towards your dream self. 

The only one who saw that dream and new version of yourself is you, so you are the judge of whether that dream or version of yourself that you want to become is wrong or right. You are the main judge, so do your job, and start the process.

Fighting!!!

 UPDATING YOURSELF 

Trends were meant to update us about what is happening in the world around us. So, when something new comes, trust me, even that which resonates with you will come, and when it does come, try to pick what you like and leave what you do not.

Do not completely ignore that the world is changing and do not make the changes frustrate you but be flexible and keep in mind that even after this change another one is coming. Prepare yourself to pick from what comes after this trends. 

Allow the times to come and go, do not be a reminder for everyone that an era like this once hit the trends. Move and be better. Love life as it continues to amaze you. Be amazed and love to live it.

Aja!!!

 COME TO THE LIGHT AWARE

PEOPLE BECOME IGNORANT WHEN THEY GET OLDER, BUT I WILL NOT SAY IGNORANT, BUT THE WORRIES THEY DEVELOP BECOME TOO MUCH FOR THEM TO HANDLE THAT THEY THEN FORGET TO TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEMSELVES.

AT THIS POINT ONE CAN TRAVEL A LONG-DISTANCE LOOKING LIFE A 60YEAR OLD SOMEBODY AND WHEN CALLED OUT FOR LOOKING OLD THEY FIND OFFENSE. WHY? THAT IS BECAUSE YOU DO NOT WANT TO ADMIT THAT YOU NOW DO THINGS THAT WILL NOT ALLOW YOU TO COME OUT BRIGHTER BECAUSE OF A CERTAIN CONDITION YOU ARE IN. 

EVENTUALLY YOU WILL GO TO YOUR KIDS GRAUDUATION, YOUR FRIEND'S WEDDING OR SOME REUNION, DO YOU THINK THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO SHOW UP? WILL YOU EVEN MAKE IT THERE? AND WHY NOT? IT YES, WHY? THAT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE LEAVING A LIFE NOT WORTH HIDING FROM. YOU DRESS WELL. YOU PUT AN EFFORT TO THE WAY YOU DRESS, THE WAY YOU PRESENT YOURSELF. THERE IS NO NEED FOR YOU TO AVOID SUCH GATHERINGS.

LIVE LIFE EXPECTING, NO ONE SAID YOU ARE WAITNING FOR SOMETHING TO HAPPEN, BUT WHAT IF SOMETHING DOES HAPPEN, ARE YOU READY FOR IT?

AJA!!!

 CHOOSE YOUR STRESSES

IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT COMES THAT SHOULD FIND A PLACE IN YOUR MIND. IT IS NOT EVERYONE'S WORDS THAT SHOULD MAKE SENSE IN YOUR LIFE, CHOOSE YOUR OWN POISON, CHOOSE YOUR OWN METHOD TO RESPOND, CHOOSE THE TIME IN WHICH YOU WILL WORRY ABOUT WHAT WAS SAID AND ALSO THE AMOUNT OF TIME YOU THINK ABOUT ISSUES THAT WOULD CAUSE YOU STRESS. 

PEOPLE COME AND GO, BUT YOU CAME AND WHEN YOU GO IT WILL BE FOREVER IN THIS EARTH, SO MAKE YOURSELF IMPORTANT TO YOU. CHOOSE TO WORRY OR NOT TO, CHOOSE TO LET GO IF YOU ARE STRUGGLING TO FIND AN ANSWER, SEEK HELP WHEN IT BECOMES HEAVY. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO CARRY ALL THAT BURDEN BY YOURSELF. 

ALSO REMEMBER THAT WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS, WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE, AND THAT LIFE SHOULD BE LIVED BY NONE OHTER BUT YOURSELF. SO, TREAT YOURSELF WITH RESPECT, CARE, LOVE AND PEACE.

FIGHTING!!!