UPDATING YOURSELF 

Trends were meant to update us about what is happening in the world around us. So, when something new comes, trust me, even that which resonates with you will come, and when it does come, try to pick what you like and leave what you do not.

Do not completely ignore that the world is changing and do not make the changes frustrate you but be flexible and keep in mind that even after this change another one is coming. Prepare yourself to pick from what comes after this trends. 

Allow the times to come and go, do not be a reminder for everyone that an era like this once hit the trends. Move and be better. Love life as it continues to amaze you. Be amazed and love to live it.

Aja!!!

 COME TO THE LIGHT AWARE

PEOPLE BECOME IGNORANT WHEN THEY GET OLDER, BUT I WILL NOT SAY IGNORANT, BUT THE WORRIES THEY DEVELOP BECOME TOO MUCH FOR THEM TO HANDLE THAT THEY THEN FORGET TO TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEMSELVES.

AT THIS POINT ONE CAN TRAVEL A LONG-DISTANCE LOOKING LIFE A 60YEAR OLD SOMEBODY AND WHEN CALLED OUT FOR LOOKING OLD THEY FIND OFFENSE. WHY? THAT IS BECAUSE YOU DO NOT WANT TO ADMIT THAT YOU NOW DO THINGS THAT WILL NOT ALLOW YOU TO COME OUT BRIGHTER BECAUSE OF A CERTAIN CONDITION YOU ARE IN. 

EVENTUALLY YOU WILL GO TO YOUR KIDS GRAUDUATION, YOUR FRIEND'S WEDDING OR SOME REUNION, DO YOU THINK THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO SHOW UP? WILL YOU EVEN MAKE IT THERE? AND WHY NOT? IT YES, WHY? THAT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE LEAVING A LIFE NOT WORTH HIDING FROM. YOU DRESS WELL. YOU PUT AN EFFORT TO THE WAY YOU DRESS, THE WAY YOU PRESENT YOURSELF. THERE IS NO NEED FOR YOU TO AVOID SUCH GATHERINGS.

LIVE LIFE EXPECTING, NO ONE SAID YOU ARE WAITNING FOR SOMETHING TO HAPPEN, BUT WHAT IF SOMETHING DOES HAPPEN, ARE YOU READY FOR IT?

AJA!!!

 CHOOSE YOUR STRESSES

IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT COMES THAT SHOULD FIND A PLACE IN YOUR MIND. IT IS NOT EVERYONE'S WORDS THAT SHOULD MAKE SENSE IN YOUR LIFE, CHOOSE YOUR OWN POISON, CHOOSE YOUR OWN METHOD TO RESPOND, CHOOSE THE TIME IN WHICH YOU WILL WORRY ABOUT WHAT WAS SAID AND ALSO THE AMOUNT OF TIME YOU THINK ABOUT ISSUES THAT WOULD CAUSE YOU STRESS. 

PEOPLE COME AND GO, BUT YOU CAME AND WHEN YOU GO IT WILL BE FOREVER IN THIS EARTH, SO MAKE YOURSELF IMPORTANT TO YOU. CHOOSE TO WORRY OR NOT TO, CHOOSE TO LET GO IF YOU ARE STRUGGLING TO FIND AN ANSWER, SEEK HELP WHEN IT BECOMES HEAVY. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO CARRY ALL THAT BURDEN BY YOURSELF. 

ALSO REMEMBER THAT WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS, WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE, AND THAT LIFE SHOULD BE LIVED BY NONE OHTER BUT YOURSELF. SO, TREAT YOURSELF WITH RESPECT, CARE, LOVE AND PEACE.

FIGHTING!!!

TRY TO ALIGN WITH THE YOUR GOALS

MOST OF THE TIME WE WANT TO ALIGN WITH THINGS THAT ARE ONLY IMPORTANT TO US AT THE MOMENT, WE FORGET THAT LIFE REQUIRES YOU TO ALIGN FOR THINGS TO START HAPPENING.

YOUR JOB

WHETHER YOU LOVE YOUR OB OR HATE IT, TODAY I WANT TO REMIND YOU THAT YOU MIGHT JUST BE HATING THE ONE THING THAT YOU NEEDED FOR YOUR LIFE TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP TOWARDS WHAT YOU WANT, SO HANG IN THERE, OPEN YOUR EYES AND SEE HOW REALLY IS YOUR JOB CONTRIBUTING TOWARDS WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE, WHAT PART IS IT PLAYING THAT YOU STILL ARE AT THE SAME JOB THIS LONG. ALIGN...

YOUR FAMILY

WE ALL START SOMEWHERE AND ARE GOING SOMEWHERE. SO, REMEMBER THAT THAT FAMILY YOU HAVE RIGHT NOW COULD BE THE FIRST SET OF SOCIAL GROUP THAT YOU MUST BE ABLE TO HANDLE BEFORE YOU COME TO REALISE YOU. TO BE ABLE TO HANDLE A GROUP IS TO BE ABLE TO COMUCATE BETTER WITH THEM, UNDERSTAND THEM BETTER AND WISH THEM WELL. BE A HIGHER LIFEFORM! DO NOT DESPISE YOUR FAMILY. LOVE THEM. APPRECIATE THEM. ALIGN...

YOUR LIFE

LASTLY, YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO LOOK AT YOUR LIFE AS A GIFT, ONE THAT YOU HAVE TO OPEN AND REALISE. LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT. IF YOU THINK IT IS HARD, WELL IT WILL BE, BUT IF YOU WANT TO SEE REALLY WHAT LIFE IS AND TAKE YOUR TIME YOU WILL BE SUPRISED. SO, LOOK AT LIFE POSITIVELY AND NOT WITH FEAR BUT WITH COURAGE, NEVER BE DISCOURAGED. ALIGN...

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 ARE YOU TALL OR SHORT?

THIS QUESTION ALWAYS POP WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO FIND WHAT WORKS FOR YOU AND DON'T. MOSTLY IN TIMES WHERE YOU HAVE TO REALLY AND NOT PROTECT YOUR EMOTIONS, YOU NEED TO ASK SOMEONE WHO CAN BE HONEST WITH YOU.

FROM THERE, YOU CAN BE ABLE TO BUY THE RIGHT FASHION FOR YOURSELF, MAKE THE RIGHT HAIRSYTLES FOR YOURSELF AND ACTUALLY WALK THE RIGHT WAY FOR THE KIND OF YOU THAT YOU ARE. YOU MIGHT BE IN THE WRONG STYLE AND ON THE WAY TO CALLING YOURSELF NAMES BUT THE QUESTION TO ASK YOURSELF IS THAT AM I IN THE RIGHT PLACE TO BE FEELING LIKE THIS? 

IF YOU DO HAVE THE EYE TO SEE YOURSELF THAT YOU MIGHT BE LOOKING FOR RAIN IN THE DESERTS, THEN TRY RELOCATING TO FIND RAIN BECAUSE THE LONGER YOU TAKE IN THE DESERT YOU ARE CLOSE TO BEING LOST AND TO GIVE UP ON YOURSELF.

AJA AJA!!!

 HOW TO BUILD YOURSELF EVERYDAY

FIRST, YOU DO AWAY WITH THINGS THAT BRING YOU DOWN. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO ALWAYS REMEMBER IS THAT WHEN YOU TRY COVER UP THE SHAME YOU BROUGHT YOURSELF ON THE OUTSIDE, THAT EFFORT IS PERFORMED BY THE INNER YOU. SO, IMAGINE THE WORK DONE TO LIFT YOUR MOOD SO THAT YOU DO NOT JUDGE YOUSELF BUT ACCEOT YOURSELF ON THE OUTSIDE AND INSIDE.

WHY NOT TRY TO BALENCE THIS TWO BY TRYING TO LOOK DECENT SO THAT THE INNER YOU DOES NOT HAVE TO TRY TO EXPLAIN THE OUTER YOU TO YOURSELF. WHEN YOU LOOK SHABBY, YOU FEEL DOWN AND IN OREDR TO LIFT YOUR MOOD THE INNER YOU WILL TRY TO CHEER YOU UP AND SHOW YOU THINGS AROUND THAT WILL, FOR INSTANCE, IT CAN SHOW YOU SOMEONE WHO LOOKS WORSE THAN YOU OR MAKE FUN OF ANOTHER FOR MAKING AN EFFORT TOWARD THEMSELVES.

HELP YOUR INNER SELF TO FOCUS ON IMPROVING YOU THAN EXPLAINING YOUR CURRENT CONDITION. THE BRAIN IS FULL OF AMAZING THINGS EVEYDAY, IT IS INNOVATIVE, IT IS THERE FOR YOU TO TELL IT YOU WANT TO LEVEL UP SO THAT IT CAN THINK OF IDEAS TO IMPROVE YOU TO BETTER HEIGHTS, SO WORK WITH IT!

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  TAKE COMPLIMENTS AND MAKE THEM WORK FOR YOU

MAKE WORDS WORK FOR YOU AND NOT AGAINST YOU. IF THEY COMPLIMENT YOU, TAKE IT. AND IF THEY CRITISIZE YOU, INTROSPECT, WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN A MANNER THAT SOMEBODY THINKS THAT ACTION DESERVES A CRITIC. 

WORDS SHOULD NEVER BREAK US, THOUGH THEY DO HOLD SUCH A WEIGHT WHEN DIRECTED TO US, BUT YOU MUST NOT TAKE TOO LONG TO GET UP AND DUST YOURSELF UP. LIFE IS A VERY LONG JOURNEY TO BE SPENDING A MONTH OR TWO MOOPING AROUND ABOUT WHAT WHO SAID WHAT YO YOU. 

THOUGH SOME WORDS CAN HOLD A WEIGHT THAT CAN PARALYZE, LIKE COMPLIMENTS AND CRITICS, YOU MUST TAKE SUCH AS A REVIEW OR COMMENT THAT IS MADE TO GIVE YOU A MIRROR VEIW OF WHAT YOU REPRESENT AT THE MOMENT. SO, TAKE THEM, ANALYZ THEM, AND IF THEY WEIGHED A TON, DO TAKE A WEEK OR TWO TOPS TO MOOP AROUND AND GET BACK ON THE GAME.

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