ARE YOU TALL OR SHORT?

THIS QUESTION ALWAYS POP WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO FIND WHAT WORKS FOR YOU AND DON'T. MOSTLY IN TIMES WHERE YOU HAVE TO REALLY AND NOT PROTECT YOUR EMOTIONS, YOU NEED TO ASK SOMEONE WHO CAN BE HONEST WITH YOU.

FROM THERE, YOU CAN BE ABLE TO BUY THE RIGHT FASHION FOR YOURSELF, MAKE THE RIGHT HAIRSYTLES FOR YOURSELF AND ACTUALLY WALK THE RIGHT WAY FOR THE KIND OF YOU THAT YOU ARE. YOU MIGHT BE IN THE WRONG STYLE AND ON THE WAY TO CALLING YOURSELF NAMES BUT THE QUESTION TO ASK YOURSELF IS THAT AM I IN THE RIGHT PLACE TO BE FEELING LIKE THIS? 

IF YOU DO HAVE THE EYE TO SEE YOURSELF THAT YOU MIGHT BE LOOKING FOR RAIN IN THE DESERTS, THEN TRY RELOCATING TO FIND RAIN BECAUSE THE LONGER YOU TAKE IN THE DESERT YOU ARE CLOSE TO BEING LOST AND TO GIVE UP ON YOURSELF.

AJA AJA!!!

 HOW TO BUILD YOURSELF EVERYDAY

FIRST, YOU DO AWAY WITH THINGS THAT BRING YOU DOWN. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO ALWAYS REMEMBER IS THAT WHEN YOU TRY COVER UP THE SHAME YOU BROUGHT YOURSELF ON THE OUTSIDE, THAT EFFORT IS PERFORMED BY THE INNER YOU. SO, IMAGINE THE WORK DONE TO LIFT YOUR MOOD SO THAT YOU DO NOT JUDGE YOUSELF BUT ACCEOT YOURSELF ON THE OUTSIDE AND INSIDE.

WHY NOT TRY TO BALENCE THIS TWO BY TRYING TO LOOK DECENT SO THAT THE INNER YOU DOES NOT HAVE TO TRY TO EXPLAIN THE OUTER YOU TO YOURSELF. WHEN YOU LOOK SHABBY, YOU FEEL DOWN AND IN OREDR TO LIFT YOUR MOOD THE INNER YOU WILL TRY TO CHEER YOU UP AND SHOW YOU THINGS AROUND THAT WILL, FOR INSTANCE, IT CAN SHOW YOU SOMEONE WHO LOOKS WORSE THAN YOU OR MAKE FUN OF ANOTHER FOR MAKING AN EFFORT TOWARD THEMSELVES.

HELP YOUR INNER SELF TO FOCUS ON IMPROVING YOU THAN EXPLAINING YOUR CURRENT CONDITION. THE BRAIN IS FULL OF AMAZING THINGS EVEYDAY, IT IS INNOVATIVE, IT IS THERE FOR YOU TO TELL IT YOU WANT TO LEVEL UP SO THAT IT CAN THINK OF IDEAS TO IMPROVE YOU TO BETTER HEIGHTS, SO WORK WITH IT!

FIGHTING!!!

  TAKE COMPLIMENTS AND MAKE THEM WORK FOR YOU

MAKE WORDS WORK FOR YOU AND NOT AGAINST YOU. IF THEY COMPLIMENT YOU, TAKE IT. AND IF THEY CRITISIZE YOU, INTROSPECT, WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN A MANNER THAT SOMEBODY THINKS THAT ACTION DESERVES A CRITIC. 

WORDS SHOULD NEVER BREAK US, THOUGH THEY DO HOLD SUCH A WEIGHT WHEN DIRECTED TO US, BUT YOU MUST NOT TAKE TOO LONG TO GET UP AND DUST YOURSELF UP. LIFE IS A VERY LONG JOURNEY TO BE SPENDING A MONTH OR TWO MOOPING AROUND ABOUT WHAT WHO SAID WHAT YO YOU. 

THOUGH SOME WORDS CAN HOLD A WEIGHT THAT CAN PARALYZE, LIKE COMPLIMENTS AND CRITICS, YOU MUST TAKE SUCH AS A REVIEW OR COMMENT THAT IS MADE TO GIVE YOU A MIRROR VEIW OF WHAT YOU REPRESENT AT THE MOMENT. SO, TAKE THEM, ANALYZ THEM, AND IF THEY WEIGHED A TON, DO TAKE A WEEK OR TWO TOPS TO MOOP AROUND AND GET BACK ON THE GAME.

FIGHTING!!!

 COMFORT IN WHO YOU ARE

WHO TOLD YOU THAT YOU ARE NOT OKAY? ARE THEY CERTAIN ABOUT THEIR DEDUCTIONS ABOUT YOU? WHO GAVE THEM THE RIGHT? WERE YOU THERE? 

NOBODY HAS THE RIGHT TO TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE LACKING IN THE WAY YOU LOOK, BUT SAY THEY DO TELL YOU THAT YOU LACK, ARE THEY READY FOR A PROJECT TO MAKE YOU PERFECT? YOU DO NOT SAY SOMETHING IS WRONG UNLESS YOU KNOW HOW TO CORRECT IT AND YOU HAVE THE NECESSARY TOOLS TO CORRECT THAT WRONG.

START BY ACCEPTING YOURSELF, THEN YOU CAN ASK FOR A SECOND OPINION, WHY ACCEPT YOURSELF FIRST? SO THAT YOU CAN CHOOSE TO TAKE THE OPINION OR CHOOSE TO REJECT IT. SO HAVE CONFIDENCE IN THE WAY GOD CREATED YOU AND START TO LOOK AT YOUR POSITIVES, LOOK LESS ON THE NEGATIVE UNLESS YOU WANT TO FIX THEM FOR YOUR SELF EESTEM. YOU ARE YOUR ONLY RIGHTFUL CRITIC.

AJA AJA!!!

 SOMETIMES, IT IS YOUR FAULT...

YOU INVEST A LOT OF YOUR TIME ON THINGS THAT DO NOT PAY AND ON THINGS THAT ARE NOT YOURS TO BEGIN WITH. YOU WORRY ABOUT THINGS AND ACCOMPLISHMENTS THAT ARE NOT IN YOUR DESTINY. HOW ABOUT YOU DEDICATE SOME TIME TO THOSE THINGS THAT YOU ARE ACTUALLY GOOD AT?

HOW ABOUT YOU PUT YOUR ENERGY AND TIME INTO WHAT YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN DO. WE SOMETIMES STRAY FROM OUR DESTINY BECAUSE WE SEE A PATH THAT WORKS FOR ALMOST ANYONE WHO TRIES IT, BUT YOU HAVE BEEN THERE FOR SOME TIME NOW AND THE PROGRESS IS LESS TO ZERO, YOU ARE STRIVING BUT YOU ARE NOT WINNING. YOU ARE TRYING BUT YOU END UP STRESSING YOURSELF THAT WHY IS THIS PATH NOT WORKING FOR? IT IS NOT FOR YOU.

LIFE IS LIKE AN EXAM; WE ARE GIVEN EACH A DIFFERENT QUESTION PAPER. DO NOT COPY YOUR FRIEND OR NEIGHBOUR'S ANSWERS, ARE WILL FAIL. BUT RATHER LOOK FOR THE ANSWERS YOURSELF. ANSWER IN YOUR OWN WORDS, THAT IS HOW YOU WILL GET IT RIGHT.

AJA!!!

TODAY IS BECAUSE OF YESTERDAY

Rome was not in a day. You look at a pretty girl you think to yourself, why am I not like that? Today I will answer that!

What do you do in the morning before getting ready to go out somewhere? Do you just make your bed, bath , have breakfast and that's it? That is probably why you will continue to took around you and wish you look like that. 

Do you have body goals? What do you want to look like? Have ever thought of that? Have ever went to the gym and looked around at what would work for you? Are you even in that position yet?

Work today and you will begin to see the results of you hard work tomorrow.

Fighting!!!
 

 FORGETTING YOURSELF IS A SIGN OF IMBALANCE

We go through so many thing and obstacles in life and in our daily life. But that does not simply mean forget you, but you should have a way to handle those hardships. 

It is not about self but is also about self, because problems will not cease to exist because they are hard but will continue to bother you once in while. What you have to do is to keep in mind that not all problems require your effort but some require you to be still.

So wake in the morning, take a long bath and have a nice cup of relaxing tea. Do that yoga or workouts. Life can go either way, but what doesn't is how you should react to them

Fighting!!!