YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE BUILDING OR DESTROYING

Ever had that thought where you are confused whether you are building or destroying yourself?

Here are a few ways to see whether you are doing this to yourself;

1. You like complements 

This is not wrong,  but it is not right either. Why? Because, the love for complements makes you a people pleaser. You do not do things for yourself,  for your own enjoyment or to satisfy one's spirit but you are now looking for ways, going out of your way to please and receive a complement.

2. You talk a lot about yourself

One cannot remain silent in a group, but you have to know when you are now the only one sharing, or oversharing. Yes, a lot is going on in your life, but does that really have to be known by everybody? Does anyone have to be updated? Will that spark love and positive vibes for you? Look around and try to control yourself. Share then wait for others to allow share, okay?

The tongue has the power to either build or destroy. Do not find yourself on the lips of people who want your joy.

Fighting!!!